When I think back to just one year ago, I’m reminded of a
time of free expression- a time when I didn’t have to watch my back every time
I opened my mouth. Alas, those days are gone and in their place I
have been left with fear and intimidation.
“What kind of person could illicit such fear and anxiety
from a grown woman?” you ask. Allow me to introduce you to Luke Wescott. While
not quite four years old, this sly and stealthy son of mine has the ability to
be everywhere at once. And, if there were a town called Bad Wordville, he’d be
the mayor.
I walked through the living room yesterday morning with my
coffee cup in hand. Luke was tucked away in his bedroom playing with his
trains, and I only left him long enough to go downstairs for a quick refill. I
was approaching the staircase when I stepped on one of his toys and lost my
balance. I caught myself before falling, but as a result I spilled my coffee
everywhere.
“$#!*,” I muttered under my breath. No sooner had I gotten
the word past my lips did Luke emerge from the very next room. He darted around
the corner with such gusto that his sock feet slid two or three feet across the
floor before coming to a stop.
“Oooh Moooom, you said a bad word. I’m gonna call Dad at CVS
and tell him, and you’re gonna get soap in your mouf. You better not say dat
again in your whole wife. You unnastand me?”
“Yes, ok. I’m sorry, but you know what, honey? Moms can say words
that kids can’t say.”
“No, it’s still a bad word. Dat’s a time out, Mom.”
I was clearly not getting anywhere with my argument so I sat
on the stairs for a few minutes to think about what I had done. I wasn’t one
bit sorry, though. Adults should be
allowed to use four-letter words. I began thinking about how much I would love
to debate him on the matter. I would totally win and have the support of Moms
everywhere by arguing that parents should have the right to use their
“power words” whenever they deemed it appropriate. The fact that my opponent
couldn't pronounce his L’s wouldn’t hurt my case either. I know that may be
hitting below the belt, but I fight dirty…damn darn it.
